Let’s Talk About Sex Baby, or Why Open Dialogue About Sex Is Effective

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Since the beginning of the semester, I have worked for a student organization at Oberlin called the Sexual Information Center (or SIC for short).  As an organization, we provide confidential peer counseling, safer sex supplies, alternative menstrual products, and pregnancy tests at bulk prices (meaning most condoms are under 10 cents, and all pregnancy tests are 50 cents), as well as free rides to local clinics.

Since the 1980s, the SIC has been putting on an event to spread the message of sex positivity (which, to be clear, means that as long as everything is consensual both emotionally and physically, any type of sex should not be viewed as negative) and to educate the Oberlin community. The event, originally titled “Safer Sex Night,” was created in response to the HIV/AIDS crisis of the eighties, to show the faculty that the students could embrace their sexuality while still being educated and safe. The event involved a dance party where the …

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NEWSFLASH! Sexual Pleasure is All in Your Head!

Okay, guys and gals. I want you to think hard about this one — have you ever gotten a  warm, tingly, whatever you want to call it as long as it’s a nice, stimulating feeling, below your belts when thinking about someone you’re physically attracted to? Or when watching a hot sex scene in a movie?  I want a show of hands. Raise ‘em high!

You’re probably thinking, um, duh, Sophia, I get sexually aroused when I think of sexually arousing things! What are you, stupid?

Well, I’m not, but some scientists seem to be a bit, um, let’s say, naive.

A new study is being touted saying that, gasp, sexual arousal is very emotionally driven in women, much more than they had “previously realized.”

Honestly, I do not see how this is any kind of revelation. The article explains studies in which subjects were coached through arousal in an MRI machine, while scientists studied which parts of the brain “lit up” during feelings leading up to and during orgasm.

The scientists quoted in the article say:

The scans show that, during sex, the parts of the female brain responsible for processing fear, anxiety and emotion start to relax more and more, reaching a peak at orgasm, when the female brain’s anxiety and emotion are effectively closed down to produce an almost trance-like state.

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