Male Killers More Overt, But No Crueler Than Females

Scales with Men and Women

The recent movie theater massacre in Aurora shocked the country.  On some level, it did to movie-going what 9/11 did to flying—essentially, took away the innocence of what had hitherto been a common, everyday occurrence.

And, predictably, in the face of world-rocking disasters set into place by humans, the situation has been parsed on many levels.  Who was this James Holmes?  Why did he go with “The Joker”?  What could happen to cause a doctoral student to run amok?  What does this mean to the gun-control pissing contest?  Did Holmes’ psychiatrist have an obligation to alert authorities as to his profoundly violent tendencies?

I found myself most intrigued by a piece from Erika Christakis, an administrator at Harvard University, positing that mass murder has a tendency to be … well, a male-dominated club.  While Christakis admits that it’s not like women never kill (and there’s the odd female serial killer that’s floated through history), it’s an inarguable fact that the most shocking acts of violence, including but not limited to mass murder, have been “overwhelmingly perpetrated by men”.

In fact, Christakis goes so far as to say throw out there that “our silence about the huge gender disparity of such violence may be costing lives.”

Hmm …

From Time:

Imagine for a moment if a deadly disease disproportionately affected men. Not a disease like prostate cancer that can only affect men, but a condition prevalent in the general population that was vastly more likely to strike men. Violence is such a condition: men are nine to 10 times more likely to commit homicide and more likely to be its victims. The numbers are sobering when we look at young men. In the U.S., for example, young white males (between ages 14 and 24) represent only 6% of the population, yet commit almost 17% of the murders. For young black males, the numbers are even more alarming (1.2% of the population accounting for 27% of all homicides). Together, these two groups of young men make up just 7% of the population and 45% of the homicides. And, overall, 90% of all violent offenders are male, as are nearly 80% of the victims.

A lot of my teacher friends and colleagues and I have a theory on fighting that goes on in schools—basically, if girls get into a fight, it’s forever.  Oh, they may smile and “make up”, but both sides (and their legions of friends) will never forget the situation.  It gets dragged up repeatedly, often into adulthood.  Boys get pissed at each other, beat the shit out of each other, and have basically forgotten the whole thing within a month and often become friends.

As this has always been my attitude, I found those statistics troubling, to say …

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Signs and Symptoms: Be On the Lookout for Head Lice

Photo of Girl With Head Lice Being Combed
Ah, head lice. As a new school year revs up and kids are freshly home from summer camps, it’s a topic worth addressing. The stigma attached with head lice is indicative of a greater problem in society, that of comparing the so-called haves and have-nots.

What’s ironic is that head lice is absolutely in no way indicative of either cleanliness or hygiene, although I can definitely remember the kids who were sent home directly following the school nurse’s “lice check.” It must have been mortifying for them.

Although I am fairly well-educated and consider myself an open-minded person, I’ve found that I have a lot to learn about these little buggers as both a teacher and a parent—and the knee-jerk reaction that seems to go along with an infestation.

From USA Today:

Any child can get head lice. Dr. David Flinders, a family physician in Provo, Utah, stressed that getting head lice shouldn’t reflect badly on children who have them or on the children’s families.

“People often think it’s associated with poor hygiene or low socioeconomic status,” Flinders said. But, he said, “an affluent person is just as likely to get head lice as someone from a lower socioeconomic status.”

And often the white collar families are the ones that suffer most as they have to overcome their own aversions and humiliation (misguided as it may be) to a situation that they have preconceived notions about.

Going to the store and buying Nix and huge quantities of Lysol? …

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This is Why You Don’t Name Your Child “Adolf Hitler”

Naming a child is a great responsibility, and one that most parents weigh very carefully. Of course, sometimes you mess up … I accidentally gave one of my daughters the same name (first and middle) as a character in a children’s series, for example, and I had to talk my ex-husband out of naming my other little princess “Pythagora” (he wanted to name the baby “Pythagoras” but then we found out she was a girl).

Still, even Pythagora is far better than Adolf Hitler. Or Jocelynn Aryan Nation. Or Honszlynn Hinler Jeannie. Yup, those are in fact actual names given to the three children of Heath and Deborah Campbell of New Jersey.

It should come as no surprise that the children were removed from their parents’ custody. The only surprise as far as I’m concerned is that they had enough time to continue this madness after naming their first child Adolf freaking Hitler.

From Newser:

The Appeals court ruling overturned a family court decision, and found that the parents suffer from unspecified physical and psychological disabilities. Heath and Deborah Campbell were victims of childhood abuse and neither “have received adequate treatment for their serious psychological conditions,” the ruling stated. The parents “recklessly created a risk of serious injury to their children by failing to protect them from harm and failing to treat their disabilities,” the judges ruled.

They cited a typo-riddled note written by Adolf Hitler’s mom and slipped to a neighbor warning that her husband had threatened to kill her, reports AP. “Hes alread tried it a few times. Im afread that he might hurt my children if they are keeped in his care,” wrote Deborah Campbell, who later called the note she admitted writing “a lie.”

You know, sometimes I feel really badly for the legal system. I really and truly do. I think it must be very hard not to say, “They’re freaking bananas, take the kids away, next!” in a case like this.

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