Blurring The Lines Between Ridicule And Hate

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I’m sorry about the title, but at least I didn’t include the word “unorthodox.”

Have you guys read this article about a group of male, highly Orthodox Jews in Jerusalem who may be taking up the habit of wearing glasses that lessen their vision. They would do this so that, when in public (or, in some cases, in private), they will not find themselves tempted by attractive women who do not dress conservatively (I hate the term “immodest” when describing women’s clothing).

I say may, because this is mostly rumor. I mean, we’ve heard rumors of “epidemics” of teenagers getting drink off of hand-sanitizer and vodka-soaked tampons. These things have a tendency to be a lot less popular than the rumors about them.

Either way, the writer of this particular article, Elad Nehorai, was not reporting this story. He was discussing the various articles and blog posts about it. He took offense to the mocking tone with which the story was reported. To his view, many people are taking this opportunity to ridicule a group of religious people for being “wacky” in a way that does not harm anyone else. He also points out that some bloggers seemed to really just make fun of the Orthodox community as a whole.

I would agree that deeply religious men who limit the scope of their senses in order to avoid temptation are really only harming themselves. I also do not doubt that there are any number of anti-Semitic and anti-religious bloggers who took this story and ran with it.

But that does not mean that everyone who pokes fun at men with healthy vision who are so concerned about avoiding temptation …

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Same-Sex Couples: Just Like You and Me

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I have a story for you.

My younger daughter, my boyfriend, and I recently went away to stay with a couple for a mini-vacation weekend. We went out to breakfast, had our cook-out rained out (but it worked out just fine inside), went to a children’s museum together (my princess was the only “child” per se, but we all had a blast), went hiking with the dogs, and laughed a lot.

This couple also arranged for me to go on a special tour that basically fulfilled a lifelong dream, and they took care of my precocious, always-talking, perpetual motion third grader (I call her Belle on my personal blog, so I guess I’ll go with that here, too) so that my boyfriend could go with me. It was an experience I will never forget, and the fact that they arranged it, paid for it, and took on the fastest talker in the east meant the world to me.

While taking Belle to the grocery store (an event that is not for the faint of heart), the possibility of Belle having a sleepover with them came up. Belle was thrilled at the prospect, and later that night I tucked her into an unfamiliar house with a couple she’s known and loved for years while my boyfriend and I went back to the hotel.

The next morning, this saintly couple called to see if we could meet for breakfast a little bit later.  Turns out there was a dollhouse in the guest bedroom where Belle had slept, and she was in seventh heaven playing with it.

We had an amazing, relaxing, and fun weekend, and our hosts went way above and beyond what they needed to.  I loved every minute of our venture (except possibly the long drive), and I know that my travel-mates felt the same way.  I can’t wait to do it again, to explore their very cool house, to go for more hikes, to check out their neck of the woods.

If I told this story to the masses, I suspect the general reaction would be, “Oh, how wonderful!  It’s always nice to have a little vacation, and your hosts sound nearly saint-like.”

So why is it that the response would change when I stated that this strong, committed, loving couple are lesbians?

And make no mistake … it would.

Forget the fact that the vast majority of pedophiles are heterosexual.  Pretend that it’s okay for heterosexuals to participate in everything from Fifty Shades of Grey-type behavior to swinging to bestiality, and don’t-ask-don’t-tell is the status quo.  Spout off passages from …

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Eat Less Chicken

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Has everyone heard about what’s going on with Chick-fil-A lately? I mean, most of you probably have, but I’ll fill you in in the off-chance you haven’t.

A lot of people have known for years that the fast food chain, Chick-fil-A, is very publicly a Christian franchise. And by this I mean that this is a part of their identity up to the very top (as opposed to a manager at a single store posting the Ten Commandments on a wall of the restaurant, which I once saw at a different chain). They are not open on Sundays. And they’ve given money to organizations that campaign against marriage equality.

(On a side note, have you guys seen the music video, by drag queens and to the tune of Wilson Phillips’ Hold On (For One More Day)? It’s Chow Down At Chick-fil-A, and while it can be a little crass at times, and probably not safe for work, it’s worth a watch. Suffice it to say that, despite the lyrics, it is not an actual endorsement.)

On June 16th, Chick-fil-A’s COO, Dan Cathy, said in an interview that he and Chick-fil-A are “guilty as charged” when it comes to opposing same-sex marriage and giving money to organizations that share that view. This is based upon their Christian beliefs.

I get that. A lot of liberal Christians do not agree that Christians should oppose the legal recognition of same-sex marriage. Some conservative Christians feel the same way. Many others, like me, are not Christians and support marriage equality. This was, however, news to a lot of people. Some (I have learned that Chick-fil-A is a Southern restaurant chain, so I apologize to those of you elsewhere who are unfamiliar with the franchise) had viewed Chick-fil-A as a healthier alternative to some other fast food options (despite the fact that it’s still fried chicken). I think that many people were unpleasantly surprised that some of the profits from their…

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UK MP Dominic Raab Attacks ‘Obnoxious Bigotry’ of Feminists

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A Tory MP (who else?), here in the UK, has hit out at the ‘obnoxious bigotry’ of feminists and has insisted that men are getting a raw deal in many areas of life in the UK. Dominic Raab has waded into the equality debate by describing feminists as bigots and saying that ‘flagrant discrimination’ against men is being ignored.

The Tory backbencher’s provocative statements have come amid controversy over the cost of implementing the former Labour …

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