Male Killers More Overt, But No Crueler Than Females

Scales with Men and Women

The recent movie theater massacre in Aurora shocked the country.  On some level, it did to movie-going what 9/11 did to flying—essentially, took away the innocence of what had hitherto been a common, everyday occurrence.

And, predictably, in the face of world-rocking disasters set into place by humans, the situation has been parsed on many levels.  Who was this James Holmes?  Why did he go with “The Joker”?  What could happen to cause a doctoral student to run amok?  What does this mean to the gun-control pissing contest?  Did Holmes’ psychiatrist have an obligation to alert authorities as to his profoundly violent tendencies?

I found myself most intrigued by a piece from Erika Christakis, an administrator at Harvard University, positing that mass murder has a tendency to be … well, a male-dominated club.  While Christakis admits that it’s not like women never kill (and there’s the odd female serial killer that’s floated through history), it’s an inarguable fact that the most shocking acts of violence, including but not limited to mass murder, have been “overwhelmingly perpetrated by men”.

In fact, Christakis goes so far as to say throw out there that “our silence about the huge gender disparity of such violence may be costing lives.”

Hmm …

From Time:

Imagine for a moment if a deadly disease disproportionately affected men. Not a disease like prostate cancer that can only affect men, but a condition prevalent in the general population that was vastly more likely to strike men. Violence is such a condition: men are nine to 10 times more likely to commit homicide and more likely to be its victims. The numbers are sobering when we look at young men. In the U.S., for example, young white males (between ages 14 and 24) represent only 6% of the population, yet commit almost 17% of the murders. For young black males, the numbers are even more alarming (1.2% of the population accounting for 27% of all homicides). Together, these two groups of young men make up just 7% of the population and 45% of the homicides. And, overall, 90% of all violent offenders are male, as are nearly 80% of the victims.

A lot of my teacher friends and colleagues and I have a theory on fighting that goes on in schools—basically, if girls get into a fight, it’s forever.  Oh, they may smile and “make up”, but both sides (and their legions of friends) will never forget the situation.  It gets dragged up repeatedly, often into adulthood.  Boys get pissed at each other, beat the shit out of each other, and have basically forgotten the whole thing within a month and often become friends.

As this has always been my attitude, I found those statistics troubling, to say …

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Pippa and Duchess Kate are “Thinspiration”

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This article from the Business Insider brings us the completely shocking news that anorexics use thin, famous women as inspiration for their desired starved-down forms. For some reason, we ought to be surprised that the Middleton sisters have been newly-minted members of the “Thinspiration” group. The article opens with the following line:

Looks like America’s obsession with Kate Middleton and sister Pippa has taken a dark turn.

Photos of the Middleton sisters have popped up on “pro-ana” and “pro-mia” sites, which …

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Beauty Redefined: Girls and Body Image Survey

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The Girl Scouts of the America, of which I was a proud member (I made both a Brownie and a Junior) has just completed the latest study out of the Girl Scout Research Institute. I was totally unaware that there even was a Girl Scout Research Institute, but it totally doesn’t surprise me because they’re basically the coolest. They send surveys to
“a panel of girls ages 8 to 17 of diverse backgrounds from over 1,300 households across the nation” to get their opinions on a variety of issues, and the latest one covered all our favorite topics; beauty, body image, and that big bad wolf, the media.

Let’s look at a few of the results:

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Portia DeRossi’s Memoir, Unbearable Lightness, Discusses Her Struggle With Eating Disorders

Portia DeRossi, (Ellen DeGeneres’ wife) has gone and written a book.  While I am a little tired of every single celebrity and their mom out there writing a book, I do think that this one might be quite good.  Portia is really articulate and it does help that she was the star of my all-time favorite TV show, Arrested Development. So I’m intrigued.

Incidentally, I actually attended the Ellen taping when Portia discussed her memoir titled Unbearable Lightness.  My friends and I managed to sit in the front row, close enough to see Ellen’s pores.  It was pretty awesome, plus we got free stuff which is always a good thing!  However, this …

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