‘True Blood’: Let’s Talk Pam and Eric for a Second, OK?

photo of pam and eric pictures I’m not going to recap an entire episode of ‘True Blood’, but I am going to discuss one specific part of it. In order to do that I need to give you a quick crash course in the characters so you can follow along. Okay, Sookie is a waitress/mind reader/fairy that lives in the town of Bon Temps, LA. Vampires exist and have “come out of the coffin” and are mainstream with humans. In this town there are also shifters, werewolves, werepanthers, magic, and a bunch of other nonsense.

I’m going to focus on the vampire part of this show. See, according to ‘True Blood’ vampires can be “makers” – which means they drain you, give you their blood, go to ground with you (get buried), and then they teach you how to be a vampire. Apparently, it’s a very intense bond.

One of the main “maker” “progeny” relationships on the show would be Eric (maker) and Pam (progeny). They run a business together and have a very father/daughter/best friend relationship. Well, in 5 Episode 51 ‘Whatever I Am, You Made Me’, we see their origin. Pam was a hooker and madam and Eric was a customer. Eric is drawn to Pam because she really has no fear, she’s attacked (Eric saves her) and she doesn’t care that he just killed someone in front of her. He takes her in a room where two vampires are feeding on one of her girls an again, “NBD” for Pam, and naturally they hookup.

During some routine pillow talk, Pam asks Eric to make her a vampire. She doesn’t want to grow old because of “the life that awaits women like” herself. He declines stating he doesn’t want the responsibility of being a vampire parent. This is the scene I want to discuss.

Pam is not a spring chicken. She’s beautiful, but older, and she seems to have a good thing going in her century. She’s got money and killer clothes and a business. But she’s doing that thing that all women do where she’s looking in the future and predicting it. In her mind she ends up with TB or syphilis, alone, and exiled because no one wants an old whore. This is Pam’s fear and she …

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Vampires in Texas?

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Between Twilight and True Blood, vampires seem to be all the rage these days.  The humanization of a heretofore stereotypically evil creature has been an interest societal twist.

Unless you want to consider that real vampires are running amok out there … and in Texas, of all places.

From WMUR:

Police arrested a man who they say broke into a woman’s apartment and bit her on the neck, claiming to be a vampire.

Investigators said Lyle Bensley used his foot to break the door down and get …

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Hollywood Tries Out Online Dating – Is the Stigma Gone?

For, well, pretty much since its inception, online dating has endured a stigma that suggests it is reserved only for the unattractive, unlucky in love, old or perverted. However today, with nearly nine million adults subscribed to online dating sites in the UK alone, and thousands of registered online dating websites to choose from throughout the world, it has this week been suggested that this stigma has long passed its sell-by date.

It is certainly a common misconception that people who date online are ‘on there for a reason’ and are unable to hold down a relationship in ‘the real world.’ I think it’s fair to say that this definitely isn’t true in the majority of cases – almost every adult knows someone who has dated online, if not having dated online themselves. I know plenty of people, myself included, who have dabbled with online dating – and this includes some who have met their partners online, and some who have been on dates with people who have ended up as their close friends.

With both men and women working longer hours than ever before, and then having to find the time to ram in everything else that needs doing in their lives, I think it’s also fair to say that lots of perfectly eligible people simply don’t have the time to go out to find dates. Online dating solves this problem by matching these ….

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Television Show True Blood Punishes Strong Women

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A few weeks back, I aired some of my hopes and fears for the coming season of True Blood. Most of them revolved around the fact that the show has –- for better or worse -– moved away from being about its lead female and into more of an ensemble focus. What I didn’t foresee was the non-stop onslaught of violence against women that dominated nearly all of the most recent episode, It Hurts Me Too. In the past month, we’ve already asked whether violence against women has become weirdly trendy;  in response to a Top Model shoot that featured bruised, battered and murdered women, we asked if violence against women was becoming trendy, particularly with the way in which dead or murdered female bodies are sexualized on TV. What was perhaps the most disturbing part of this past week’s episode was the fact that a lot of the attacks on women were being played for laughs or shock value.

Apart from Pam, every single major female character on the show was in some way attacked, demeaned or demonized. Let’s start from the top:

1)      Sookie, our “main” character, wants to go look for Bill in Mississippi. Eric can’t come, therefore he sends Alcide, a werewolf, to protect her.  The scene where Alcide approaches her from the back makes it look like he’s about to attack her. He still grabs her and overpowers her quickly, but only to tell her he’s an okay guy. They go to a “Were” bar where Sookie nearly gets raped by another werewolf until Alcide steps in and saves her. Sookie’s clothing and degree of cleavage is also mentioned quite a bit in the show. Yes, she’s a telepath, and so in theory a bunch of drunk men are going to subconsciously ogle the petite blonde waitress (and she’ll know about it!) , but it seems as though Sookie’s clothing choices are often critiqued, mentally or verbally, which makes the subsequent rape attempts tread into uncomfortable “she’s dressed like she’s asking for it” territory.
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