It’s not shocking to see a girl going down on a guy in a sex scene in movies. That’s common practice. You hear the sound effect of a zipper and the girl disappears out of the shot, or she kisses her way down and we see the pleasure on his face, or you flat out see her bobbing her head up and down on his lap. This is standard.
I can think of 4 movies that have a guy going down on a girl and one of them is American Pie and that scene is not sexy–it’s a joke. So lets call it three. Three movies in which a woman is shown receiving oral sex and enjoying it in a sexy way. The movies I’m thinking of are, Blue Valentine, Up Close and Personal (he kisses down and the camera quickly pans to her face showing her enjoyment so I might call this a 1/2), and A History of Violence.
That’s it. I can name 100 movies in which I’ve seen a guy getting head–not to mention TV shows. Holy crap, Mad Men alone has scene after scene of chicks dropping on guys–not one scene in which Don gives back. What is it about the female form that makes oral sex so–wrong? Dirty? Secretive? Why are we hiding cunnilingus?
For goodness sake it can’t be the female form–a man’s form is far more abrasive than a woman’s. It can’t be the motion…for a female oral sex scene you just show a man’s head between her legs–maybe you can show a little up and down or side to side motion but it’s nothing compared to the freaking bobbing that goes on with a blowjob scene. Next time you’re watching a movie with a sex scene–watch the blowjob scene…those chicks are working it.
So, what gives? Why are we so anti eating out but so pro sucking off? Is it the terminology? Have you been squirming anytime I use a slang form of the word? Does the picture at the top of this article make your stomach drop? Did you spend an extra three seconds staring at it? Is that what happens when they watch the scene back in the edit bay? Maybe there are dozen’s of cunnilingus scenes on cutting room floors? Maybe they see the scene and someone says, “My goodness–that man is putting his mouth on and or near that vagina–WE CAN’T HAVE THAT! Go back to the scene where she bounces her head up and down on his lap making it seem like his penis is at least a foot long.”
Either way–I want to see more guys dropping in main stream films. Who’s with me?