Oh, how I wish my lying, cheating ex-boyfriend could read. I would have loved to have done something like this. (Okay, okay, I kid, he was semi-literate.)
Apparently, being the other woman took such a toll on this lady she decided to very publicly lash out at her very public boyfriend, by posting the evidence anywhere and everywhere.
This latest rendition of “You cheating bastard” begs the question so eloquently posed by writer Carrie Seim:
How dumb can these cheating husbands get?
You send late-night texts to these women, take them on vacations, mail them letters, promise them a wedding reception performance by the Dave Matthews Band – and then expect them to keep quiet? Someone always finds out – and your risk is directly proportional to your level of fame and/or income. Mistresses don’t just go away when you’re bored with them – especially if you’ve got a lot to lose.
The sad part in this type of revenge story is that no one really wins. Maybe the cheater, if he can manage to assuage one of the women involved enough to keep them around, or if he manages to avoid contracting and spreading venereal disease. But the scorned woman, in my experience, finds little comfort in outrageous efforts to get even. You’ve still loved, and lost, and now maybe other people are feeling hurt too. That’s not really comfort, or even closure. Thinking back to the revenge plot where the women did bizzarre things with their lover’s penis and some super-glue, I can’t help but wonder how much more outrageous these kinds of stories may get.
I understand the temptation for the ultimate revenge. Trust me, I do. But I’m not sure that lashing out is really helpful. Is it better to keep your head up and walk away gracefully? I think so. But I’m open to persuasion on that.
I had a friend once who had two girlfriends and a wife. He came home from work one day and found all three sitting in his living room drinking a bottle of wine. He just turned around,jumped in his car and kept on driving.
seriously?
hahaha, what else was he supposed to do, pull up a chair?
but no, really, that is just greedy, 2gf and a wife? who has the time these days…
Yet another reason why it is just better to never cheat.
My ex husband-thingy cheated with my friend after 6 1/2 years. they were doggy style watching buffy season 3 when I walked in.
I have a great life and I think they are still together, which is sort of revenge, because she is one of those serial mistresses that you hear about, always fucking the boss, bosses wife, whoever. I really like her, but she would be a terrible girlfriend.
Her and I are still facebook friends which annoys him I suppose.
but isnt it better to cut all communication with people who hurt and cheated on you?
i tried that for a year with her but I missed her so why punish myself? She’s not better than me, just has a lower moral standard, so i don’t feel like “oh she is better than me, she was chosen over me.”
I tried to be friends with him but he is a fucked up little unit and has managed to turn the whole thing around in his head so that I drove him to it and ruined his life. So he wont speak to me. Last communication I recieved from him about a year ago he told me that I had gotten married so that I could change my name on my email and upset him. Every now and then I send him photos of Canadian wildlife with funny captions.
Getting married to change your name to get back at an ex would be pretty hardcore. He sounds like a wonderful guy, bet you’re sorry you left him now *snort*
Wow, Lady Goo Goo,” i tried that for a year with her but I missed her so why punish myself?” I hope for your sake that you have massive boundries up with her. I think she really violated your trust and respect with her actions, no matter how you justify her actions.
I give you credit for being able to stay in contact with her whether she’s likable or not. Even if I was on the verge of breaking up with my husband, I don’t think I could ever buying the hatchet with the friend, maybe in her forehead, but that’s about it!
@vchilds. Forgiveness is not having boundaries. Otherwise it not really forgiving.
I know she would do it again to me, and anyone else in the world because she is wired that way. Her self-esteem is so low that she feels better if she has sex with married/stable relationshipped people.
But as my husband has an equally high moral standard to mine, hates drinking, drug use and loves big bums then even if they ever met she would stand no chance, as she is a small bummed alcoholic who likes party drugs. My ex (who is a glorious creature I am considering writing a book about) slept with a few of my friends in our relationship, yet because of his severe mental helath issues that led to intermittant hospitalization I was councelled to believe it was not his fault, as he was not in a mental state to make responsible choices, thus disenabling me leaving him as you can’t leave a sick person because their illness is inconvenient.
Anyway, they are quite welcome to each other, and how could I possibly turn off such a brillian reality sitcom?
I would actually like to attend their wedding. I was in an ex’s wedding party before- it was gold.
Lady, you are a freakin’ weirdo. I love you.
@blurry it was medieval.
@Goo. Yeah, you’re right forgiveness is darn right forgiveness. Boundries are what I have to use, even with people I love. One heck of a story, I still give you kudos.
I think one of these days before the end of our life a few of us should meet up for coffee…how about it Alzehtia, Rhonda, Blurry, Goo, Sydney, Joey? (We can be as different as night and day, but seem to agree to disagree.)
What about Mr Right Wing?
Im totally disappointed that you agreed with me by the way, I was going to get all biblical about turning the other cheek. Oh well.
I would love to meet up of it were at all possible.
Count me in, Vchilds!
Sounds like fun :)
I’ll bring the baked goods! Although, I’ff have to make two batches–normal and vegan, as I know we have a lot of vegans here.
That would be sweet. I’ll cover the vegan baked goods, love baking.
I think we should all get drunk and get Zeldalilly logo tattoos,and Sasha should pay for it.
^ Well, I don’t drink and I don’t like tattoos, but I’d watch (and let you squeeze my hand if it hurt).
Mireee, where are you? Hope all is ok.
No tats for me Joey, but I’ll join Sydney in the hand holding!
OK,everyone comes to my house for vegetarian spaghetti,my sauce will have you dancing like a Rastafarian,I have the reggae music.
“doggy style watching buffy season 3″ OMG The visuals that just went through my brain! :)
I have a friend who came home early from work to find her husband with her sister.
She whipped out her cell and took not just pictures, but video.
The judge in the child support / alimony hearing was very upset.
It is funny to read, but you have to wonder where she got all of this money? She is listed as a journalist, but the Times Square bulletin board alone cost $50,000!
And it says in the article: “According to Gawker, a slew of giant billboards have popped up in New York, San Francisco and Atlanta featuring a mysterious couple, Charles E. Phillips and YaVaughnie Wilkins. The signs spotlight an oversize image of the couple cuddling, along with the words “You are my soul mate forever! – cep” and a link to a bizarre website littered with love notes and romantic pics of the canoodlers. (The site, charlesphillipsandyavaughniewilkins.com, has now been shut down.)”
Call me suspicious, but could it be politically motivated?
Apparently, “Charles is the co-president of software giant Oracle and on the board of President Obama’s economic recovery team.”
This woman didn’t just hire an airplane to fly ove a baseball game with one of those trailing signs, she didn’t make a FaceBook page about it – she commissioned billboards in 4 major cities AND hired a web designer to go along with the billboards!
Call me suspicious.
I say I have a sensitive nose and I smell a rat.
Dammit!
THREE cities, not 4!
I bet a billboard in a major city would run in the thousands per month.
50k for the Times Square one alone…
Boo and Hiss on revenge, these woman who go in for the revenge are supposed to be adults. They need to get some self control and grow up as even small children learn not to lash out.
i think the best revenge is to move on, be happy and live a great life. not only is it the best revenge but it’s what’s best for you, and isn’t that what is really important in the end?
ceci, i agree. one, it will annoy the heck out of whoever was dumb enough to let you go! and the fact is that forgiving is the only way to move on and be happy again, and that’s what’s important anyway.
I think the best revenge is photoshop and an internet posting detailing his physical limitations. SNORT. It’s childish, but hilarious.
I’ve got a feeling if a male did this to a cheating female, everyone would be against him for ruining her reputation and embarrassing her. Sorry, but this strikes me as a “double standard” situation.
(Both sexes should just get over it.)
Nope….I’d think she brought it on herself, same as this guy. Man or woman, if you cheat, you will probably get what’s coming to you somehow.
You might be right. But I think it’s the ‘he shouldn’t ruin her reputation’ part that would be wrong. I think there’s every right to get someone’s lying ass out in the open.
I probably wouldn’t bother to do something like this myself, but see nothing wrong with it for someone with the means and the will. Perhaps it is very cathartic.
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